1 Thessalonians 5:14 – BE PATIENT TOWARD ALL MEN
Wednesday, May 26th, 2010
1 Thessalonians 5:14 Now we exhort you, brethren, warn them that are unruly, comfort the feebleminded, support the weak, be patient toward all men.
How many of us know a person who just tries our patience. No matter what they do, it just grades on your nerves. Maybe it is a young child who really does not know better or maybe it is that individual who works right around the corner. No matter who they are, they qualify as a person whom Paul is exhorting us to be patient with.
We all seem to think that our trials are unique and that we do not have to apply by the wise advice given to us by Paul in this passage. However, there are many stories in the Bible of godly men who were finding their patience being tried by an individual and they managed not to lose the credibility of their testimony.
When Absalom attacked Jerusalem, David found himself fleeing for his life. Shimei who was a relative of king Saul came out and started cursing David. Shimei was so obnoxious that David’s men wanted to kill him. However, David understood that God was the judge and he would not allow a hair on Shimei’s head be touched that day. David was patient and he allowed God to use Shimei to drive him to examine his heart to ensure that he had a right relationship with God.
Paul himself had an occasion where he found his patience being tried by a young lady who was possessed with a spirit. This young lady was constantly following Paul around proclaiming that Paul was a servant of God. This young lady was telling the truth, but she was doing it in such a way that it was hard for Paul to do his job. However, Paul did not allow himself to grow impatient with this young lady but instead he turned this difficult situation into an opportunity to minister.
When someone is getting on your nerves, this gives you an opportunity to check to see what God is doing. Is God using this person to draw you closer to HIM? If you believe that your relationship with God is in good order, then check to see if God desires you to minister unto this person. Start by asking God to show you what you can do to help this person who is driving you crazy.
We have heard that a pearl comes from a small irritation. When something finds its way into an oyster’s shell, the oyster will start to cover that object. As the oyster continues to cover the irritation, it is soon creating something that is very valuable. That thing that had no value all of a sudden became a pearl of great price.
Stop looking at the irritations in your life as something bad. Instead, look at these irritations as a gift from God. If you maintain a right attitude towards God, God can turn these irritations into something that gives glory and honor unto HIM. It is our job to be faithful to ensure that we do not let the irritations to destroy us.
It is hard being patient with someone who has done us harm. However, this is what we are being exhorted to do. It does not matter how unfair the situation seems to be, it is our job to obey God and make sure our circumstances are not allowed to control us. God has given HIS permission to allow this irritation to enter into our life and it is our job to first make sure that God is not trying to get our attention and then we can determine how we can turn this bad situation into a good situation for HIS glory.

